Having someone who understand you will lead to a comfortable relationship for both. Having someone who does not understand you will eventually let you understand an important reason; In life, understanding is more important than loving.
Saw this quote by random while I was surfing net. It was a translation based on my own understanding. But yes, i have to agree, 人生中，懂，比爱，更重要. Having someone who understand you is more important than anything else. If someone loves you yet does not understand you, then there is no point staying together (Been there, done that and it was a terrible feeling).
When you are sad, he doesn’t know what to do.
When you are angry, he doesn’t know what to do.
When you are happy, he just smile.
It seems as though the both of us were living in different worlds (despite being together).
Understanding is a crux in every relationship. You have to understand each other; be it character, interest, likes & dislikes etc. Love alone is not sufficient if you guys wanna stay together forever.
Wishing everyone happiness!🙂