Ella陳嘉樺 ft.Tank – 懂我再愛我
曲：Tank 詞：姚若龍 編曲：黃雨勳
以為妳會開心 用飛奔傾訴愛意 來我 懷裡
為什麼妳不靠近 憤怒得關上自己 淚眼 迷離
從前妳很開心 我丟掉苦悶自己 微笑 學妳
被夢想分隔兩地 用思念熬過孤寂 不停 想妳
I first heard of this song few months back, and perhaps it was the first time, I didn’t really pay much attention, especially to the lyrics. But after watching the movie, where the song was played, I begin to listen to the song and googled for the lyrics to better appreciate it. And right now, this song is looping while I’m doing my work.
On a more personal thought.
The song makes me re-think. Maybe I should not even be thinking about this now since I have already decided to move on, but… perhaps, maybe he never really understood me, or rather, I never really understood him. It was this kind of “not understanding each other” which resulted in today. I am not very good in expressing myself, especially with those sweet nothings. I am too much of a realist, very pragmatic that a little insecurity I felt will shut me out. And he, failed to help me overcome the insecurity.
It’s a well written song I would say. It sings out the thoughts of many ladies, who have been hurt in love, who suffered because of love, who felt that they were not understood by their loved ones. Sometimes, it’s not about showering the lady with expensive gifts, it’s not about fame or power, it’s not about doing things wrong then apologizing. What we need is understanding – for you to understand us, to know what we really need and want. Understanding comes before love. The importance of understanding can never be neglected.
We may be in love, but without understanding, the love we share will never go far.